For most teens, the transition from child to adult is exciting, rocky and awkward. Risk taking is a natural part of youth development. And, while most of our children survive the teen years relatively unscathed, there are some who make negative choices that permanently affect their future.
It is difficult to recognize if your child is suffering from depression and using drugs and alcohol to self-medicate. The National Alliance on Mental Illness reports that one out of every five children suffers from some form of mental illness, most often depression. When our children hurt, they want something to make them feel better and their search could lead to drugs and alcohol.
But, use of alcohol and drugs will not end the pain of depression and left untreated, your child’s illness can worsen. Studies show the earlier our children use substances to medicate themselves, the more likely they are to become addicted. This combination of chemical dependency and major depression is referred to as “co-occurring disorders.”
PARENTS SHOULD KNOW
Use of chemicals may be linked to your child’s depression. To distinguish between normal teenage angst and behaviors alerting you to a more serious problem, watch for the following symptoms of depression—
• Persistent sadness or anxiety
• Loss of interest or pleasure in activities
• Decline in school performance
• Feelings of hopelessness or desperation
• Feelings of guilt, worthlessness or shame
• Change in sleeping patterns
• Changes in appetite or weight
• Decreased energy and fatigue
• Restlessness and irritability or increased anger
• Inability to concentrate or make decisions
• Increased alcohol and/or drug use
• Thoughts of suicide or wishing to be dead
Parents whose children have five or more of these symptoms lasting at least two weeks should have them assessed by a mental health professional to determine if they have a depressive illness.
Studies indicate that alcohol and drug abuse are second only to depression and other mood disorders as the most frequent risk factors for suicide.
Statistics gathered show—
• 20 percent of teens seriously consider suicide
• 14 percent of teens have made a suicide plan
• 8 percent of teens make a suicide attempt
• 70 percent of youth who make a suicide attempt are frequent alcohol and/or drug users
• Binge drinking significantly increases suicidal ideation, planning and attempts
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
• Find out why your child is drinking or using drugs
• Review the symptoms of depression and determine if your child has five or more of them lasting at least two weeks
• If depression is suspected, have your child assessed by a mental health professional
• If depression is diagnosed, monitor your son or daughter’s treatment to ensure compliance with the prescribed therapy
• If your child is chemically dependent, seek rehabilitation in a facility offering expertise in the treatment of co-occurring disorders
REDUCING THE STIGMA
It is a myth that your depressed child can “pull himself up by his bootstraps.” Your son or daughter may need effective treatment that combines anti-depressant medication with talk therapy. If you child had diabetes, you would seek medical care to help her. And, you would find a qualified therapist for a child with a speech disorder.
Physical illnesses such as depression and other mood disorders that affect the brain also can be treated by professionals. No amount of “pulling oneself up by one’s boot straps” will repair the faulty wiring of the brain. Children who get treatment can become healthy.
Depression is a treatable illness. Your child need not suffer. Treatment for depression saves lives.